Thursday, September 25, 2008

Another beautiful poem

IF

IF you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,But make allowance for their doubting too;If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,Or being hated, don't give way to hating,And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:


If you can dream - and not make dreams your master;If you can think - and not make thoughts your aim;If you can meet with Triumph and DisasterAnd treat those two impostors just the same;If you can bear to hear the truth you've spokenTwisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools:


If you can make one heap of all your winnings And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,And lose, and start again at your beginningsAnd never breathe a word about your loss;If you can force your heart and nerve and sinewTo serve your turn long after they are gone,And so hold on when there is nothing in youExcept the Will which says to them: 'Hold on!'


If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,' Or walk with Kings - nor lose the common touch,if neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,If all men count with you, but none too much;If you can fill the unforgiving minuteWith sixty seconds' worth of distance run,Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,And - which is more - you'll be a Man, my son!

Rudyard Kipling

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

be happy, stay happy!

this period's been a super busy time for me, coping bet work, studies,fam, etc...

esp now parents busy with their business, i try to help them as much as i can. these days also no home cooked food fm mum, so everyday i dabao home. last time really took mum's home cooked food for granted, now need to dabao home very tiring, also outside food eat until sianz, home cooked def better for health...

everyday after work come home eat dinner watch a bit of tv,telling myself that i better work on my masters report. trying to push away the yawns and sleepy eyes to read journals...sighz

but i must constantly remind myself, that as long as i can eat and sleep, i am grateful.

Monday, September 15, 2008

thought-provoking day

Today 'wo bao' got 2 meaningful articles...

one was english one, sth abt lanterns and stars which tell the story abt a wealthy king bring his little son to visit the poor, then the king asked the son what he learnt:

he answered: 'we have one dogs, they have 4; we have a garden but they have fields that spread for miles; we have a pond but they have a creek that flows endlessly; we have imported lanterns but they can see the whole sky of stars;we have ppl to serve us, but they serve others...thanks dad for showing how poor we are'

meaningful.

another was a chinese article on how to be calm and charismatic. In it, it talked abt zhu ge liang. wow, i din noe zhu ge liang got wife one, and wow i din noe zhu ge liang got taste one, he din fall for some prettylicious babe but a average looking woman with a great brain. *salute*

came home watch 'human spirit', today 2nd part on malcom (alzheimer patient) and barbara (his loving wife who took care of him till his last day). the documentary was filmed over 11 years, and we saw how a talented musician is reduced to a little boy and later, into a pack of skeletons. it is very very sad. like what barbara said: only love can make her go through all this...'

Sunday, September 14, 2008

so many weddings these days :P

Congrats Charmaine and hubby

just went for a wedding lunch last week, this week gg for wed dinner. so many weddings, more coming up...is it cos of my age, where many ppl marry ard this age, or is the govt baby bonus package thats tempting? haha. of cos i tink its the former...

charmaine is my pri sch fren, our mums noe each other and we used to take swimming classes tog.grinz. nice wedding at marriot hotel. got chance to catch up wif other pri sch frens too whom i have not seen in ages, such as cat, eileen and laiyao. all seemed to be very successful in their careers now.hehe.

the food was good, and i loved the dessert the most, haigen diaz ice cream cake per pax! whee~~

happy happy. happy occasions never fail to make one happy,grinz

Mugmugmug

sun spent all day writing my interim report for my masters... write until wanna puke, so many tings, so much to read...gosh, can't wait to finish this sem, its tough working and studying,grinz

dinner went parkway, bought the sunblock that my aunt recommended, hope it will work! had simple dinner at hawker centre and yeah, mac hot fudge sundae! yum yum!

as long as i can eat and sleep, i am a happy girl :P

Monday, September 8, 2008

The Human Spirit:

today very tired, wanna go straight home to rest after work, but gotta help dabao food to parents first. wait queue pay carry. very clumsy today, and almost forgot to take the green bean soup, heng the nice auntie shouted loud to me, nice aunty, will always buy dessert fm u :P

reached home super shack, finally got time to have some quiet time to myself, so watched superband while eating my super cold beehoon (cos of the travelling). tot superband is so-so, perhaps i have missed the good groups, but i like 'Tu Zi', cos as girls, they sang and even played the instruments better than the other guy contestants!

just as i was abt to switch off tv, i saw the human spirit show gg to start. today its about a wife great love to her alzhiemer's husband. the documentary followed their lives, fm the start of alzheimer. at first he only forgetful, then he became to act like a kid, always scold and even pull his wife's hair and grabbed her. but the amazing wife. always there for him. even when he soiled his pants while standing up and walked around the whole house stepping on his own 'cake'.

during the interview, the wife said: i must constantly remind myself that what has happened is not markus fault, its the disease that is causing him to be lik dat.'

this documentary not only showed us what alzheimer is really like, but also demonstrated the great love that a wife can have for her hubby....

Sunday, September 7, 2008

Shopping and Masala ART

Sat shopping at Bugis, whee~~

Ate at the fish and chip store at the basement, first time there. the marinara spag was so-so, cos it was served quite cold and the fish a bit...fishy (dunno how to describe it better,haha). but the mixed platter thingy (with fried chicken, calamari and fries) is good!! overall ok, considering the food wasn't that ex (cos no service charge).

after that tried the yoghurt store nearby, ordered the mango peach yoghurt drink, now promotion only $2.50, cheap and yummy!

then went shopping, target is 'Fashion Lab' cos got sales for 2 items, where 2nd item 20% off. Realised now a bit fat, tried some of the clothes not nice,haha. but in the end settled for 2 dresses (one nice green 'silky-kind' dress and one white summer dress) for ard $120+. Happy!

Masala ART: Congrats Promo and Gamini!

Yeah, it is promoda's, my ntu coursemate, wedding lunch at masala art http://www.masalaart.com.sg/Masala_New/main.htm

simple affair with a lunch buffet. me and pat mingled with promo's other frens from nus and ntu. a couple of them said i looked familiar, maybe cos i was always running ard in nus back then,haha

wow, the spread of food is good, with naan, mutton, chicken, rice, fish etc etc. I loved the naan best, followed by the satay-chicken thingy followed by the mutton, gosh thinking abt it makes my saliva drip....




gosh, how weekend flies. why can't weekends be longer?!? grinz

Thursday, September 4, 2008

Happy fire

these days keep being on 'happy fire', haha

but at the end of the day, i must tell myself: 好心是有好报的。。。that's what my mum always says. :)

I hope this will keep me going, grinz

Be Positive!

Tuesday, September 2, 2008

strive to be happy

not in the best of luck these days...

came home after a hard day at work, super tired, decided to destress by playing psp and viwawa, ended up losing at both games, making me more demoralised and sianz,haha

decided to sleep early, but cannot sleep, so just turned on tv to see whether got funny shows to cheer me up.

well, turned out that the tv8 is showing 'successful ppl', today was abt a young guy who got cancer but he never gave up, in fact he became a successful entrepreneur with several businesses.

one sentence he said: u never noe the pain of cancer unless u urself is a cancer patient...

it made me think: now i am healthy and well, i really 生在福中不知福。。。。

whenever i am depressed and sad, it seems that god will never fail to remind me how lucky i am,grinz

as what desiderata says:

with all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, the world is still a beautiful place.